But once you realize that you don’t have to figure everything out on your own, you’ll notice that a lot of the scary things in life aren’t quite as scary as they first seemed. Some people won’t help, some people will suck at helping you and some will ask you why you're calling at 3am on a Wednesday with questions about 401ks. Call someone right now and ask them for help with whatever has been plaguing your noodle lately. Spend a night and two bottles of wine grieve-crying to friends and move on.Īsk for help all the damn time. Still dying to know why? Fine, put down the phone with the three-page hate text at the ready and I’ll tell you. Did someone you were seeing disappear mid-text and never resurface? Don’t panic. This comes in handy particularly when it comes to dating. And if even after you’ve spoken up a time or two and this person still insists on being an asshole - ditch ‘em. Shit, people aren’t even really good listeners, but you should still speak up. When something happens and it makes you mad, sad, irritated, uncomfortable…say something. Frozen may have the “Let It Go” mantra stuck in your head for the rest of eternity, but Disney isn’t always right.
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